Ok I understand my question is somewhat broad but that is what I am hoping from this post, broad open ended answers. Now I also understand that on top of high school I still need to do well in college and the MCAT and I want to let every one who responds to this post know that I understand the drastic an enormous undertaking that is usually implied when one brings up the profession involving a medical personnel. Now I give you a somewhat brief description of my motivation. At the age of 8 my grandfather was diagnosed with multiple blockages of the heart he was given the normal course of action as anyone else which was a four way heart bypass after his surgery he seemed to be doing well but two years later without any warning my grandfather died not of heart trouble as the doctors so assuringly described, No my grandfather who helped me through the toughest of times died on the week of Christmas of gall bladder failure. which had been festering in my grandfathers body well before my grandfathers heart problems had occured. Of course this is indescribably saddening to me,but I only ask that you respect my post and kindly request that my past only strengthen my passion to become a accredited physican. Ok now ever since that event in my life I have been overwhelmingly determined to in a way to correct a wrong that could have been fixed or in a another way be a doctor that is more caring and would step out and run the extra mile to find not only my patients obvious problems but also any other that another doctor may have missed or misdiagnosed this is not only the kind of person I am but the kind of doctor I wish to become. Still my only question is my gpa decent enough to get into college and what are my chances on getting into a medical school if I major in biology and plan on getting a 3.7 college gpa. Also if any one has the time could you reply with a detailed guide to becoming a doctor because I’ve looked at many of the online guides and honestly they weren’t that great and if you know a good website feel free to post those as well.

How do I tell my husband I am unhappy?

I love my husband but I am unhappy with the way things are right now. We’re come from different cultures and backgrounds. We have a 3 yr old son and a baby on the way. I don’t want to start a fight by letting him know I am unhappy. I wish i could go to marriage counseling but i think he would get mad and I know he wouldn’t attend. He is very overweight, all we eat is junk food because that’s all he wants to eat. I try to at least feed myself and my son healthy things. If we don’t have that he won’t eat anything else and he gets mad at me. He is in the military and he is always hurting and tired and sore. I try to tell him that vitamins and vegetables can help, because they give you body the minerals and things it needs, its a basic fact. But he won’t listen. I want to take online college courses and he doesn’t think it’s a good idea. I wanted to start exercising before i found out i was pregnant and he said I didn’t need to that i look fine. I understand that was kinda his way of telling me he like me the way I am but I need motivation and support in my life or I become a lazy depressed bum. He joined the army to be more disciplined, and make a better income for our family. It has given us the opportunity to be together in a place of our own, but when he comes home very tired from work all he wants to do i play video games. I know that grass is always greener on the other side but i see so many husbands who take care of themselves, cook once and a while and spend quality time with their family’s too. My husband doesn’t drink or smoke, and he is not abusive. He rarely voices his feelings and when i ask him what are we going to do with our lives he says he wants to take it one day at a time. I am the opposite i want to succeed and i want to have a plan and find a house we both like etc. So what I am trying to say is how to I bring it up that I am unhappy with our lives? I love him and I don’t want to start a fight or make it seem like I am nagging. Help Pls.
My husband will also not join me and my son if I ask him to come to the playground with us. He like to live in a "cave". Shuts the blinds and turns the lights out. And I like to leave all the window’s open. Also I am afraid because winter is coming, I have no car ( we got rid of it to save money) and my son is at home with me(can’t go to daycare due to being caught up on immunizations). We live on an army base.
One more thing sorry, What if he doesn’t listen and doesn’t want to change. I can’t live like this forever. Does that mean I we shouldn’t be together?

Is this to throw the bone to the EEOC?

First of all, I am very thankful for my job. It’s an okay job– it keeps the bills paid, but it does not utilize my skills or education at all. I have worked for the same company since August 2006. I figured my hard work, persistence, and education (bachelor’s degree in aviation, working on MBA part-time) would pay off eventually. Last month, my manager was transferred. I applied for her old management job. They hired my only co-worker instead (it was the manager & two salespeople). She is lazy, sloppy, less educated than I am, rude to customers, calls in sick at least 2x a month, shows up late at least 3x a week, has a bad sales record, and usually spends 2/3 of her day shopping online for purses and shoes. She complained about her job and showed no motivation until last month when this management position opened. I am FAR more qualified for this job & I actually wanted it. I am a man (I’m on my wife’s YA account) and I really, genuinely felt like the only reason she got this job is because she is a woman. She is lazy, uneducated, unmotivated, and only started trying harder at work when the management position became open. They did not call ANY of my references, completely disregarded my education and loyalty to the company, and they told me I was not “confident enough” in my interview. Seriously??? I am not a shy, self conscious person by any means. But of course I was nervous in the interview—it’s a huge responsibility with a considerable pay raise that my family could desperately use.
I am so sick of this company. I’m at a dead end job. I want to tell them off, but I don’t want to get fired. I have applied at over 70 jobs since January 2009 and I haven’t gotten but 4 interviews =( It’s this wretched economy. I am thankful to at least have a job, but I don’t know how I can make myself respect this chick as my superior when she is the way she is. I really feel like she was only hired because of their EEOC statistics. They wouldn’t want to be hiring too many Caucasian men, right? That might not look "fair". Not even if the said Caucasian man is far more qualified for the job. Does anyone have any advice?
CapWest– That’s exactly it! I trained my previous manager & the co-worker who was promoted today. In the past few months, the only people they have hired are uneducated, single mothers (no offense to anyone). New applicants have to fit that mold if they want any chance.

And we bought a house about 8 months ago, so now we’re stuck here. Sometimes I regret buying it.

Hey guys, I am currently attending University of Phoenix for their online courses. I am in the BSM program and have 7 more classes to go once I finish these two courses. I am currently taking two courses at once and they are difficult. I have currently a 3.58 GPA plus my two classes i'm in right now I have B+

I am feeling pretty burnt out so far from school because they are difficult courses. I plan on going onto my MBA right afterwards as well (Few months of rest of course)

But does anybody know how to kinda get a refresher in from school? i don't want to take a break and I am only about 6 months of graduating. I can't wait! This motivation is what is steampowering me everyday. But the road is awfully tough. I just worry about getting a promotion after obtaining this degree.