Husband set up account on local sex hookup site?
He’s been acting odd, closing windows on computer when I come into the room, deleting the history. Does he think I’m stupid and don’t notice the changes in his behavior? There have been several other occasions where I have caught him joining these sites. So I checked up on him and he has just paid for a membership for a local sex site. On his profile he stated that he is separated and looking for sexual relations or group sex. We’ve been having other problems and among the things we talked about he told me he wasn’t happy with our sex life. I’ve made an effort to improve my efforts in and out of the bedroom and even done things I’m not comfortable with to please him. We’ve been married for 9 years and have 5 young kids, so it’s not like I want to just walk away. But I’ve asked him to go to counseling. He didn’t give me a straight answer. He said he would go through a marriage course online with me. When I asked him if we could purchase it now, he told me that it wasn’t the best idea to spend money on THAT right now. So he says he’s willing to work on it, but seems to be giving a different message. I left him once before for different reasons and while we were separated I had a brief fling with someone. I know I screwed up, but does that mean its okay for him to be pursuing this online thing?
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it doesn’t sound like your husband really wants to work on your marriage and i think no matter what you try to do for him in the bedroom it wont make a difference. he has made up his mind to explore sex with other people……..leave him.
tell him your consulting a divorce attorney and what day a nd time is good for him,
If he’s paying that is not a good sign. He’s looking for someone however he might not find anyone.
nope. it’s not ok for him to do that. 2 wrongs will never make a right. and leave. now. go. if he hasn’t yet, you know he is trying to hook up with other women. think about yourself and the kids. what about your health?! all the std’s he could bring back to you. he sounds like a sex addict that needs some serious help to me. i say take your kids, contact your family, and get the heck out and get tested stat!
wake up!
time to go, or let him f u c k around – your call!
it may be he just needs to feel desirable again. you shouldn’t worry tho, there are only old ugly women on these sort of sites.
maybe get him to get an std check every 12 weeks to prevent him giving you a nasty disease.
You need counseling and he wants to have sex with every girl he sees. Even if he loves you, he is tired of having sex with you.
no its not okay, men are alot different from women, they do have very different sex drives but thats no excuse for him. in my opinion my husband watching porn a little bit is ok with me but as far as him saying he is single is f**kd up.i see where you mean about not wanting to leave him because of youre children, thats reasonable.my advice is to watch your back, theres no telling what kind of crap hes into and with the std’s and things like that the wrold has become very dangerous, if your husband wont try at all be seeing a counselor, and wont get off the sites where he is actually planning to have sex with people i say tht you highly consider leaving him, good luck
Ha. You had a fling, yet have an issue with him doing his thing online. Wow. What a joke.
Well you know how the saying goes ;If you can’t beat him then join him; try calling one of those sex telephone numbers in your area; and when he comes into the room hang up; Let him hit the redial button and when he question you about it just tell him that what’s good for the gander is better for the goose; and that way you won’t feel so left out when he do his thing
your actions are pretty clear… you’re NOT locked into monogamy…
so… why don’t you go with the flow… tell him openly you’re willing even excited about the idea of group sex and would love to participate with him… enjoy a physical relationship with others and him… and a loving relationship WITH him…. they aren’t mutually exclusive.